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How Boys can avoid being a "spare"

2018-03-17 20:48:19

Men pursue women, success, men have a girlfriend; Failed. Man and woman went their separate ways. In fact, in addition to these two cases, there is another situation, that is, women want to enjoy men's care and care for women, and do not want men to get what actual return, clearly men have worked very hard, get is "you are a good person" useless label. This kind of behavior of women cultivating "spare tire" for themselves really makes men angry, how should men avoid becoming "spare tire"? Xiao Bian not talented, summed up the following points, I hope to help you.

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First of all, it is best to carefully observe whether you are a spare tire at the beginning, whether you will always have no time to accompany you, always do not take you to see friends, do not want to introduce your family to you, rarely take the initiative and you will only think of you when you ask for help, do not want you to touch her, and your attitude is hot and cold. There is no plan for the future of the two of you, if you have the above points, then you are 80% spare.

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Now some women are very smart and very realistic, will deliberately hide their emotional status, let you think that he is single. Good at dealing between men, nothing is fine with you, and occasionally a little ambiguous, such a woman has no principle in her feelings, and you don't know that she will have several spare lovers. Old drivers like this and you're just a stupid backup. Be sure to find out what the other person's emotional status is, you can find out the truth about her through her friends. Once you know that she has a boyfriend, you should be decisive and refuse to let her know that you are not always available for entertainment.

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Of course, there is also a situation that you really like TA too much, rather silently do the spare tire, but also believe that it will wait until the day when TA melts. In fact, "I would rather be a spare tire for you" is never a great sacrifice, it is just a lack of self-love. At this time, you must restrain your feelings, understand self-value, understand self-love, men do not have to humble, shameless way to pursue women, men to women "for" love, women will not cherish men, but will let women produce "princess disease" remember that you are an adult, there is no need to hot face stick cold butt, not climb, not settle.

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This article is based on experience

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There are some boys who are rotten good people, trying to make themselves the most popular "warm man" image in the eyes of girls, but in the end a lot of female friends, but none of them can be repaired, this person is usually called "cloud spare tire". "You think you have a lot, but you take very little; You think it is all yours, in fact, it is completely shared "to know how to refuse, when you find that the other party only comes to you when she needs you, and this is the case every time, usually will not take the initiative to talk to you, your good for her is a" good old man "has become a matter of course, to learn to lose your temper, although no temper is a good thing, but it is not absolute, When the other person does something that you can't stand, be sure to learn to lose your temper and let the other person know that her behavior is hurting you. Otherwise, she will think that you are a good old man without a temper, and you can do this, which greatly reduces the possibility of spare tires

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From their own reasons to find a woman to find you as a "spare" reason, the image of the man itself is not good, then try to learn to wear, to give women clean, bright feeling; The economic foundation of men is not too good, then work hard to fight for the cause, at least to have the economic ability to afford a woman and meet her vanity. After the "transformation" of the man, the charm increased, will have more attraction than before. At this time, when men go to contact with women, they will also appear more confident and calm. If you become good enough, you will always meet better ones.

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