A relationship lovers from hand in hand, does not mean to have, this can only be said to each other to each other a recognition, recognition is not verified all, in the days behind, each other will heart, with the eyes, with the ears, with the body to enjoy each other to bring their own feelings, two people have a tacit understanding, this is a default way of operating feelings.
The beginning, the beginning of love at the beginning.
Give and take This is not a transactional approach in the world of relationships, it's communication. It's got echoes. The Farmer and the Snake. A philosophy, a fable, not a formula, cannot define any emotion.
We need chicken soup, we need references, in order to get us out of the confusion of the emotional world. "I love, everything I do is for you!" Such words, such words, appear in many emotional worlds of one side.
From your point of view, even from the perspective of your friends, your family, these people, your giving is real. Why she or he didn't respond and was even rejected. You end up with a lot of persuasion.
It is not worth it, give up, don't be silly, such words make you more convinced that you have paid, you have a clear conscience for this relationship, and you have worked hard. But is this really the case?
Remember, for those who beg, when giving their love, to remember a word, see the beggar, you can give him or her some money. A person who can not even eat, in this society is really encountered difficulties. And see the street begging for money, give him some food, because most of them are tools used by others.
Your love may not be love in her or his eyes. Maybe that's just a good thing. Every person, every time, every space, needs are different. Emotional giving, to observe the response at all times, but also to understand whether the other partner needs. Don't turn your giving, your love, into another burden to give to each other. You are bitter, the other partner is also tired.
Love is not an investment, does not need a return, but needs a response. You have to prove that what you're doing is right.